Everyone does look for validation.
But it's a very unforgiving world if we base validation on the speed of a job. The efficiency of money-making. The spotlight of fame.
I'm finding that validation for a person like me, who has no real dreams and no real, substantial, ladder of success chosen, is one of a societal role done well.
I'd like to think that I'm doing a good job of a Sam to some Frodo's.
And maybe that alone should be a legit source of pride and self-worth.
But there's also the nagging thought that I might just be lowering my standards in an effort to justify my misgivings.
I'm not sure which it is. But whichever best works to keep me from wallowing in self disappointment, I'll take that card. Whichever works.